Post By: Abolaji Daniel
Am sorry am disappointing you.
Am not going for second place.
I'm aiming for the wining pace.

The winner have more joy than the second place winner. - Daniel A. O. 

To give my future a long lasting joy with the help of God I have to keep striving. The future is promising. So will I thrive upon hard work. I gat God in my back 
Says, Daniel

Work to learn and earn more money than those who work for money Don't work for money, don't work for money, I repeat.. Dear reader copied? 

When it's like you're getting tired... Tell your legs you still have a long way to go... 

When your head seems like breaking down... Tell your head...that, you're the head, and you're been assisted by others, So you must not be weak cause others are with you. 

Are your hands weak? Should I tell you this 
No matter how your hands are weak.. So far is not truncated from the others.. Put Eba gbigbona in your hand and see if it won't know direction to your mouth.
Am not done yet. Are your eyes seeing mess, I don't want to mention all but I will mention few... Are you seeing your age doing what youve not been doing or what you seems not to do, probably because you say you can't do it.

Are you really seeing yourself in a greater heights, but you're just seeing it. You don't know what ladder to climb to get to the top height. 

That's what I can call mess for now(me). If you slap me in my face.. You've just mess with your hands and not me.. If I also do the same to others have just messed with myself.. But am talking about the realistic mess.. Mess that could give you an endless thinking that... I would have know. Mess that gives you more than 12 hours working for money.. Lemme kill it here.... Your eyes is worked (Connected) with your brain.

Then is your brain got complicating about things running through your minds? Are your brain feeling hurt maybe cause of what your minds(heart) has been through? Are you feeling the real headache of becoming a successful person..... That's what am really talking about... Are you stressing your brain to think wiser and better for your mind... For construction.

This may seems complicating, but I wouldn't bring some of my friends issue into this.. Few people often prepare for what tomorrow holds either bad or good.. Either fair or complicating... When it's seems today you Gat no food on your table.. Do you still want same to repeat itself tomorrow? Do you still want to be fed by your past.. I mean letting your yesterday repeating today... My mom used to tell me when I was growing up.. Cause I used to be stubborn.. Though am still but am simple to be friend with, very simple to get along with. 

She used to say, is it what I told you yesterday that I must repeat today? 
Or

As I got you beaten everyday, do you like it ? In me, I will be like.. You kuku kill me.. Who will like to be beaten everyday... 
But to be sincere.. If you don't stress your brain and mind to think wise and work fine for you, they won't stress themselves... You will be the one stressing yourself... 

Let me save you from the story.. It's heart touching... Smiles 

We all strive towards outcomes at work, at home and in our communities because we believe they will make us (or those we love) happy.

It might be a good job, a loving relationship, money or possessions. It might be better health or spiritual peace of mind.

And it can feel wonderful when we eventually get them. Those things become cornerstones in our best-laid plans for the future.

Yet life is constantly changing and sometimes it blocks (or even undoes) things we expect, feel we deserve or have worked so long and so hard to accomplish.

But because we fear starting again, looking foolish or that we might end up somewhere worse, we often don’t want to change when things begin changing around us.

We deny change has arrived or was coming. We get frustrated and start to blame others. We cling to what was, instead of what simply now is.

And the more important whatever’s-at-risk feels, the more desperately we try to hold on.

We seethe with impotent stress and vexation. We think more about what could go wrong than go right. We let our fears grow out of control then control us.

But the fact is, like it or otherwise, that the world is constantly changing. And while not all change is good or necessary it always creates new opportunities, whether we recognise them immediately or not.

That’s why it’s important to learn how to deal with change. That’s why it pays to learn how to adapt to new circumstances.

How to Enjoy Change

When change happens, the first thing to realise is that how you react is your choice. The biggest barrier to change is inside you.

The second thing to realise is that the best way to deal with change is to keep things simple, be flexible and move quickly. When change comes along simply change with it.

Ask yourself:

  1. “Where am I likely to find the best opportunities, fighting this change or embracing it?”
  2. “What could my life look like if these new circumstances led to something even better than the ones that I’m leaving?” and
  3. ”What would I do if I wasn’t afraid I might fail?”

Really reflect on your answers.

Visualise them til the details are almost tangible in your head; until you change what you used to believe.

Realise that most of your fears are irrational. Laugh at your previous folly. Let it go.

Then take action – make things happen rather than letting things happen to you. Take control – even if you worry you’ve waited too long.

Recognise that sometimes things change and they are never the same again. And if this is one of those times, that’s life!

Life moves on and if you don’t want to risk going extinct, so must you.


Allow me to say this... 
I keep worrying that when and how do I get to my finishing line? Do you know the finishing line am talking about.. It's not the work I secured today, it's not the fame, it's not even joy I have today, it's not even about begging you to listen to my podcast or watch my video on my YouTube channel... It's about me, the finishing line, where I will be entitled to Gold Medal and not just medal... The finishing lines where I have used all my strength, power and everything I had, everything God has given to me to becoming a winner and an overcomer.

I hope you got value, I hope this is really helpful? 

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